Attracting a partner from the opposite sex is all about you and not them. If you have a look of someone who is confident and self assured and has a positive outlook, you will be much more successful than the person who is timid and lacks confidence.
People are attracted to looks and appearance and in the first instance it’s presentation that counts, though that doesn’t mean you have to be the most attractive person on the planet, and you probably know a few people who always seem to have a new partner, but in your mind they are not the most attractive people in the world, and you wonder how they do it.
Presentation isn’t just about how good looking you are, it’s about how you dress, how your hair is, what type of make-up you use and what shoes you have on, these things are just part of it. You should look your best at all times. That means you should wear the best clothes you can afford, even when doing the gardening you must be smart, don’t just wear your old jeans that are faded and ripped, wear smart jeans, so that if you come across someone you like, they are not turned off by your appearance. You will also feel good if you are dressed right, and you’ll end up having a much nicer looking garden too. Wear the best clothes you can afford. We can all go to the local discount store and buy the cheap clothes, and yes they do the job and do look smart, buy cheap clothes don’t last and don’t look good for long, besides you will feel much better inside knowing you have good smart clothes on.
Make sure your hair is brushed well at all times, again if you are doing the shopping in the supermarket don’t go out with messy hair, take a comb or brush with you and if you have to, check your hair before you shop. Again look smart and you will feel smart and you’ll attract a partner without concentrating on what you are doing. If you wear make-up only use colours that compliment your colouring and features. Don’t use too much make-up. Always have smart polished shoes, as we all know you can have the best most expensive clothes on but if you have cheap dirty shoes on, which may be your most comfortable pair, but if they are messy and don’t go with your outfit, you will not look attractive.
You are dressed for the appropriate location, and dressed well. You find yourself in the supermarket and you see someone who attracts you. What do you do? Eye contact is essential. Look them in the eyes, linger a bit with the eye contact and then slowly look away. Move your head but keep your eyes fixed on theirs, move your gaze slowly away from them to a product on the shelves, then a few seconds later look again and do the same. At this point you must smile. If you notice them looking at you again, this indicates they are interested in you, otherwise they would have looked away or gone away from you. If you get the second look, now is the time to approach them and make verbal contact.
Look for something you can hold a conversation with and mention it. Notice what they have in their shopping basket and ask them either where in the shop to find it or make a comment on how much you like the product and recommend something to go with it. If you see something to compliment them on do it. Tell them their nails looks nice or comment on their perfume or aftershave, or comment on their clothing; do this just to get the conversation started. Once you have made the contact look for things they are interested in and ask them about it.
Now it’s up to you to keep them interested. If you can offer to help them or provide some info, then you can ask for their e-mail address. Once you have some contact information, you are well on the road to attracting them.
Be confidentThese steps will not work every time, It very much depends on how receptive they are during your initial contact. If you follow these simple steps you will eventually attract the right partner for you.