Personal Development
Essentials
How can you tell if you are in a bad relationship?
How can you tell if you are in the wrong relationship or your relationship isn’t working out how you want it to?
Here are a few signs to look out for:
You get presents or flowers on a regular basis,
often on Valentine’s day or your birthday or when you are not well
or sometimes just because, All of a sudden you stop getting these
gifts, and your partner is starting to spend more and more time at
work, working later and later and you’ll get a strong feeling
something isn’t right.
Your partner often speaks down about everything and everyone that is close to you, your parents you friends. Worse than that they will start to pick at the clothes you wear and the way you have your hair. This leads to your friends and family to not trust your partner.
Your partner often puts you down in front of people. A bit of fun is one thing, but constantly and repeatedly talking you down, deliberately contradicting everything you say and then laughing about everything that is private and sensitive is proof that it’s time to move on.
You’ll often find your partner’s friends have warned you off them. They might be well known in your circles but who else’s circles have they moved in, and even if you don’t know your friends may, and they will be the best people to listen to especially if there might be something else going on.
You are seeing this partner because you know it will please and impress other people. You might be seeing him/her because they were introduced by a friend and you don’t want to let your friend down. Sadly this is really not the right reason to stay in a bad relationship.
When it comes to men some girls just keep getting
attracted to love rats. They never learn from their mistakes and
keep pulling them in. The warning signs are always there when it
comes to these bad boys, so whatever you do stay well clear.
Your partner won’t add you on their facebook page. Surely this is a real sign that they are hiding something. Could they be flirting with other friends that they don’t want you to know about?
They receive lots and lots of text messages, which they respond to secretly away from your gaze, surely they should be sharing their communication with you.
These are just a few points that will help you decide if your partner is really keen on you, and indicate if you are in the right relationship or not.